Not Only Vanilla Sex, There’s More

Most of the time, when people speak of sex, everyone is just so familiar of Vanilla Sky. Vanilla Sex is the plain and conventional sex position that everybody is familiar with. While the term suggests an old favorite, it also implies sex that could be connoted as dull and unadventurous. Sticking out with the plain and the usual can be quite risky. It may entertain boredom between the couple. Here are some tips that you may consider to improve your sex life.

Sex Positions That Rock
Trying a new sex position is not only for the excited honeymooners, anyone  can rekindle the spark with their long-term partner by trying out something new. This does not require you to be super flexible nor wildly adventurous- these are just options that you may want to try. Try to consider them and make your bedroom less of a flicker and more of a full-blown fire in no time.

1Standing Tiger, Crouching Dragon
While the lady is perched up on an elevated surface, the guy’s penis has greater rear entry to hit the G-spot and send tingling sensation all over the lady’s body. It gives more opportunity for your man to touch your hair, slap your butt, and manhandle you however you want.

Doggie Style
This is a great position for women since it gives her to have optimal control. She can easily adjust her range of motion for the best angle while the man can stimulate her G-spot and have access to her clitoris.

This is another great position that you may want to try. Both partners are lying down. The woman is on her back and the guy is on his side. She has her legs draped over his middle like a giant X. Since the bodies aren’t squishes against from each other, either you or your partner reach down and rub her clitoris where most women need just to reach the Big O.

9Kinky Heir to The Throne
Inspired by the hit series, The Game of Thrones, try something that is a bit offeat. Ask you’re the guy to use a scarf or tie to bind your hands and you may also include the legs to a chair. The mere fact that the guy knows that he is totally in control, this immediately turns the heat on. For a stronger O, have him tease your G-spot while simultaneously applying pressure to your pelvic bone.

The Pillow Technique
As experts agree that positions become more pleasurable for a woman when a pillow or blanket is added. Having a pillow to elevate the pelvic area allow the guy to man rub her G-spot with his penis.

Which One Should I Try?
The suggestions given above are just options for you to choose from. You may want to search for more options but adding variety to your sex life improves your relationship with your partner. You must consider a position that yields great sensual pleasure for both of you and at the same time comfortable to work on.


Fun Filled Fantasies Through Masturbation

Technically, Masturbation is the self- stimulation of the genitals to achieve sexual arousal and pleasure, usually to the point of orgasm. Masturbation is commonly done by touching, stroking, or massaging the penis (for men) or the clitoris (for women) until an orgasm is achieved. Some women also use stimulation of the vagina to masturbate or use “sex toys” such as a vibrator.

Who Masturbates?
In this case, surprising as it may seem, it is just about everybody. Masturbation is a very common behavior. Masturbation is the first sexual act experienced by most males and females. This is not limited to adults or young adults but this also involves children. IN children masturbation is just an essential part of growing up wherein they are exploring his or her body. Some people may continue masturbation in their adult stage but for some it lasts a life time. According to studies, men are more likely to have done it and they tend to do it more often than women.

1People having the higher levels of testosterone are linked to have more desire for masturbation but only among women. Among men, testosterone levels are unrelated to masturbatory desire. It only proves that the factors triggering a person’s desire for masturbation may be different for men and women.

People of all ages masturbate. Younger people are most likely the ones reported for doing it but they definitely they are not the ones who practice masturbation for self-stimulation.

Why Masturbate?
Whether married or not, one might be asking about the existence of masturbation. Obviously, it feels good. It also becomes a good way of relieving the sexual tension that can build up over time, especially for people without partners or those whose partners are not willing or available for sex.

9Masturbation is also the best alternative for people who want to avoid pregnancy and the dangers of sexually transmitted diseases. However masturbation can also be used to get semen samples for men who wish to have an infertility testing or to become a sperm donor. There were also some cases where a sex therapist would recommend masturbation due to sexual dysfunction.

Findings reveal that frequent masturbation is said to be good for the health. Research says that in men, masturbations reaching its peak or orgasm is related with enhanced immune system functioning.

Other than that when masturbating, a person’s perception of what is sexually attractive and desirable changes. Research found out that highest form of sexual arousal can be achieved through masturbation which makes almost anything seem even more sexually appealing.

Is it Normal to Masturbate?
A long time ago it was said that masturbation is a sign of mental problem and perversion, masturbation now is regarded as a normal and healthy sexual activity that is pleasant, fulfilling, acceptable and safe. It has become a good way to experience sexual pleasure and can be done by anyone regardless of their age. Masturbation only becomes a problem when it inhibits sexual activity with a partner, or when it is done in public or it already causes significant distress to a person.